by Asha Haridas

Many astrologists suggest the lucky stones on the basis of stars; but it is not sufficient. It has to be based on Sun’s position and Planetary positions. So it is essential that you consult a good astrologist before selection of the Stones.

Introduction: Engagement is a joyous and proud moment for two hearts full of love bonded by ring ceremony. Offering a ring is a unique way of expression of a romantic love. It is independent of the material and cost. Topics Covered

1. Selection

(a) on the basis of Astrology

(b) on the basis of Science

2. Options

(a) Antique

(b) Branded

3. Quality & Credibility

(a) Gold

(b) Diamond

(c) Gem

(d) Platinum

4. Price

(a) Standards

(b) A word of caution

5. Appendix

(a) International Certification Centers

(b) Alternatives to Gem

1. Selection of engagement ring on the basis of Astrology

Many astrologists suggest the lucky stones on the basis of stars; but it is not sufficient. It has to be based on Sun’s position and Planetary positions. So it is essential that you consult a good astrologist before selection of the Stones. Wearing stones not suitable to you may cause undesirable effects. Rings with Navaratna should not be used. e.g. Nobody consumes all the vitamins together; but selects the vitamins depending upon the necessity. Similarly some stones produce good effects for one person while other stones cause evil effects. Select which is suitable for you. It is not advisable to fix more than one stone in a ring. Next comes the selection of metal. Usually stones are embedded on silver rings. You can opt any metal, but silver is cheaper than gold. The stone need not touch the body, but the bottom of the ring should be open so that skin is able to absorb the energy of the stone. The weights of each stone should also be given importance. On the basis of science Selection may be done according to the budget, colours matching with the skin or dress, style and grace.

2. Options Antique rings

These are traditional rings representing status, culture and heritage. It is unique in style, class and grace. Usually the design and art form are selected by customers with the guidance of goldsmith and templates. This may be a pleasant surprise to your loves ones.

Gold rings – Branded, artistically designed rings are available with exclusive sellers. For those who no longer desire the traditional golden yellow, various colored gold rings are available. Such rings are becoming popular. You can choose Sandal Polish, Copper Polish, Mat Polish, Rhodium coated or Tri-colored gold.

Diamond Studded Engagement Rings – The upper class customers find a costlier way to express their affection and love by offering diamond studded rings to their loved ones. You can select pure diamond or diamond like Zirconium. There are colored ones from cheaper varieties like Yellow and Brown to costlier ones like White and Pink.

Gems and Stones – Gems have emerged as a strong contender to gold and Platinum. Belief that gems and stones are linked with luck and health is becoming strong and popular. They are also cheaper than diamond.

3. Quality and Credibility Gold

Hall Mark makes your gold reliable. After the introduction of ‘Caratometer’, it is now easy to check the purity of gold. Credibility is further boosted by the standardization of gold by World Gold Council. Now the Certificates of authenticity is issued along with branded gold ornaments. Now the consumers are quality conscious. Standardization of diamonds and gems is a boon to the purchasers. Four C’s are carefully looked into by consumers before purchase. Four C’s

Cut : – This is the most important one among 4 C’s — because this decides the sparkle or brilliance, which is based on depth of the Stone. It is better to purchase diamond having sufficient depth. The table, the flat part, should be sufficiently big for, this too contributes to the brilliance.

Colour :- The more the whiteness (less yellow) the costlier is the diamond. Colour codes are adopted by Gemological Institute of America, i.e., from D to Z. D,E,F are clear, G to J is colorless; thus moving down to Z which is light yellow. It is always better to view the un-mounted diamond from the top and from all the angles to determine colour and brilliance. But deciding the colour is not easy unless you compare with a standard diamond. Remember that among the colored diamonds, Pink is the costliest, Yellow and Brown the cheapest. Refer internationally accepted colour chart available with the sellers.

Clarity :- The lesser the flaws in a diamond, the better is the diamond. These flaws are natural and GIA has standardized them as given in Appendix. All these flaws are not visible to naked eyes. Beware of filled diamonds, i.e., diamonds having more flaws are filled to increase clarity. These types of diamonds are cheaper. It is preferable to refer any internationally accepted chart available with the sellers.

Carat :- It signifies the weight (1 carat = 200 milligrams). Density varies from diamond to diamond. Hence, for the same weight, size varies from diamond to diamond. So it is imperative to give importance to the weight and not to the size.

Few more tips for buying engagement ring

1. Beware of the fake diamonds and enhanced diamonds. There are synthetic and imitation gems which are manufactured on the basis of soft glass. Further, sellers also assemble stones called doublets or triplets in which two or three sections are fused together and held by a colorless cement.

2. Factors such as four C’s should be given due importance.

3. Good and bad diamond cuts.

4. Check for cracks, bubbles and clouds.

5. View the diamond on a white background from all sides; otherwise, even a yellow diamond may appear to be less yellow.

6. Never check diamonds on U.V. light – GIA reports indicate whether there is fluorescence in diamond., i.e., diamond’s reaction in U.V. light.

7. If there are more than one diamond in a ring, the weight given is the total carat weight ( weight of all diamonds.).

8. Always insist on Certificate Of Authentication by internationally accepted centers. Such certificates, certify the exact grade of the diamond; (the true value of your diamond) and it offers assurance that in case of any repairs, your diamonds can never be fraudulently replaced.

4. Price

This is the tricky part of purchasing a diamond. Diamond Report which gives information on pricing. I recommend not to accept the price if it is not according to the standard.

5. Appendix

International Certification Agencies are :-

1. GIA GTL – Gemological Institute of America Gem Trade Laboratory.

2. AGTA GTC – American Gem Trade Association Gem Testing Center

3. EGL USA – European Gemological Laboratory

4. GII – Gemological Institute of India

5. IGI – Antwerp based International Gemological Institute

List of Original and Cheaper variety of Gems

1. Ruby Star  – Ruby Garnet

2. Pearl  – Moonstone

3. Coral –  Cornelian

4. Emerald  – Jade, Peridot

5. Yellow Sapphire  – Golden Tops

6. Diamond – White Tourmaline, Quartz

7. Blue Sapphire – Lapis Lazuli

by Farhan Jaffar

An engagement ring is the most important aspect of an engagement. It signifies the betrothal of the man and his spouse. The type of ring you choose reflects your personality and also your passion for the spouse.

Summary:

So you’ve decided to pop the question and the next thing in order is an Engagement Ring, to commemorate your eternal commitment to the one you love. Of course, the debate still rages: Why do we need to buy a ring? Is the expense worth all the hype? Does it mean anything at all? When did all this begin, anyway?! Well, the following trivia may help:

* Egyptians believed that the “love vein” (vena amoris) ran straight from the fourth finger to the heart.

* Judeo-Christian ethos considers the ring’s significance as its symbol of everlasting continuity.

* Most agree the tradition of buying a diamond engagement ring began in 1477, when Archduke Maximillian of Austria bought his future wife Mary of Burgundy a large diamond.

* Still more believe it’s a vast conspiracy on the part of the jewelry industry to rake in all our money!

Just remember, in matters of the heart, one needs little justification for any act, senseless or otherwise. Follow your heart, and let it decide what you want.

1. YOUR BUDGET – FOLLOW YOUR HEAD, NOT YOUR HEART!

I know I’ve just contradicted myself, but hey, this is an important point. It’s all very well that you’ve decided to go in for the ring, however here’s the guideline: Jewelry is expensive. Good jewelry is even more expensive. Great jewelry is… But you get the point. Solicit ideas may be a good idea. Speak to men who’ve already done the deed. A family member could have some advice. Your local jeweler will simply be bursting with ideas too. However, ensure that the final decision is yours. Nothing else will do. Here are some tips to help you along.

It doesn’t always need to be a diamond. It’s true. Many feel the modern tradition of diamonds is over-sold. Remember that the value of the engagement ring will mean different things to different women. Most women believe more in the symbolic value of the ring, especially if the proposal is sincere. There are many imitation diamonds in the market, but remember that while it may fool some, it will never fool her. My advice, don’t even try. But do take heart; there are many alternatives to diamonds that are affordable, romantic and of symbolic value too. A Ruby or a Red Garnet symbolizes the passion and zest for life, and everything the heart stands for. Other marginally more expensive alternatives are the Red Tourmaline or Red Spinel.

Choices in green include the Green Garnet and Green Tourmaline, and the enchanting Emerald, all of which stand for the everlasting symbols of faithfulness and continuity. The Blue Spinel, Iolite, Blue Tourmaline and Sapphire stand for purity and spirituality. The Pearl has long been associated with love and weddings, far before any other gemstone. Try and find a natural pearl in an heirloom or antique piece. A good idea would be to combine the stone of your choice with a small diamond on either side to complete the symbolism with the aura of indestructibility and infinity that the diamond stands for. An important thing is to decide whether she prefers her birthstone itself. It will make it more personal, closer to her heart.

So no matter what your budget, and no matter what you want to say, these beautiful, rare and precious choices are well within reach. It simply has to incorporate the correct symbolism for the two of you, while showing thoughtfulness and caring. However, society sometimes fuels unrealistic expectations for the perfect engagement ring, and you may decide to go in for a diamond ring after all. Or maybe, you can actually afford one quite easily. Whatever the reason, remember to separate yourself from the benchmarks that others set, and make this decision based on your own preference. Most financiers and jewelers agree that an ideal budget would be in the range of approximately 2 or 3 months’ salary. Some choose to spend more because they have another disposable income, and many find a good ring spending less than the prescribed budget. Just remember, matters of the heart are generally directly disproportionate to your bank balance! Use your head, that’s all.

2. WHAT DOES THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE ACTUALLY LIKE?

You will now have to begin doing things that most men find very difficult. Start Paying Attention!

* What is the metal color she prefers? Unlike men, most women will have a definite preference. Your choices will vary between White gold, Yellow gold, Rose gold or Platinum.

* Does she now wear jewelry that is vintage or antique? Or does her preference lean towards modern contemporary design, or is she prejudiced to classic and timeless designs that never go out of fashion?

* Her regular jewelry is probably the best indication of her taste, especially because it almost surely is made up of items she is most comfortable with. Are You Listening?

* If she’s ever mentioned an opinion, it’s a definite clue. Has she commented on a friend’s ring? Why did she like it? Or why not?

* Does she like diamonds, or does she prefer other gemstones? Has she ever discussed jewelry with friends or family?

* If you’re clueless, don’t worry. It shouldn’t be hard to divert her attention towards a jewelry store when you’re out shopping. Be subtle! Tell her you’re looking for a tie-pin or something, but be sure to stop by the engagement ring counter. Start Noticing Her Hands!

* Think proportional when it comes to choosing the shape of the stone, and the ring’s thickness.

* Bold styles generally suit women with long fingers, while delicate jewelry will be unnoticeable on large hands.

* The wider the band, the shorter the appearance of the finger.

* Oval diamonds will make her fingers look more sleek, but avoid over-doing it.

3. CHOOSING YOUR JEWELER & JEWELRY CERTIFICATION

Regardless of whether you choose a gemstone or a diamond, this is an important step. It will not only ensure you get your money’s worth, but will also help if and when you decide to insure your expensive investment. In the US, the GIA (Gemological Institute of America) or the AGS (American Gem Society) are the most trusted certifiers for diamonds. Various countries have their respective certifiers, so make some enquiries before you purchase that stone. Look for a jeweler you can trust. Generally, a jeweler who has a good reputation in the community and who’s been in business for many years is the one you should approach, especially if you, like most men, are not very familiar with jewelry.

4. The Ring’s Band

Get It Right! However tempting it is to ignore the band because the vast majority of the cost is for the gemstone or diamond, the way the diamond is set in the band decides the overall appearance of the finished jewelry. Fortunately, this is much easier than picking out the gemstone. The thickness of the band isn’t the only consideration. Her personal taste in metal color, her hand type, her skin color, the size of the stone, all play a part in deciding what the band should look like. Regardless of whether you choose White, Yellow or Rose Gold, 18ct (Carat) Gold is the best choice, followed by 14ct. Despite being significantly more expensive, many still choose Platinum for the ring. Now you need to decide how you want the stone set. Want it to ride low? It won’t be very showy (you’re probably wondering what the point is then), but consider that a diamond that juts out is liable to snag itself on just about anything that brushes it and will also be prone to damage. You’d imagine there’d be an easy answer to the illusive question of choosing an engagement ring design.

There is no scientific or mathematical way to design or choose one. It’s purely a matter of one’s personal preference, hedged by some practical reasoning: – Does it look good? – Is it practical to wear? – Will it withstand normal wear and tear? – Does it hold the all-important gemstone securely? If you want an extremely fine design, then choose Platinum, as it is much stronger and will wear out gold many times over. Also, a 6-claw arrangement will hold the stone more securely than a 4-claw. If her work involves very heavy contact, then you may consider a bezel setting (called a rub-over). It’s safer than a claw setting. You may want to sneak one of her rings to the jeweler, so he can measure it. Otherwise an outline will help. You could impress one of her rings in a bar of soap, or push one down as far as it will go on one of your fingers, then mark the spot. Simpler still would be to trace the ring on paper. If all else fails, try asking her mother or friend to do the deed for you! Which brings us to our final point: Is this ring an investment? Ideally, no. At least, not for the reason you’ve bought it. When you consider the non-monetary investment you’ve made in the ring, you’ll find as a symbol of your love and devotion, it stands unrivaled. As a priceless testament of your love, your woman will be overjoyed, no matter what you choose.

by Reuben Robert

It doesn’t always need to be a diamond. It’s true. Many feel the modern tradition of diamonds is over-sold. Remember that the value of the engagement ring will mean different things to different women.

So you’ve decided to pop the question and the next thing in order is an Engagement Ring, to commemorate your eternal commitment to the one you love. Of course, the debate still rages: Why do we need to buy a ring? Is the expense worth all the hype? Does it mean anything at all? When did all this begin, anyway?! Well, the following trivia may help:

* Egyptians believed that the “love vein” (vena amoris) ran straight from the fourth finger to the heart.

* Judeo-Christian ethos considers the ring’s significance as its symbol of everlasting continuity.

* Most agree the tradition of buying a diamond engagement ring began in 1477, when Archduke Maximillian of Austria bought his future wife Mary of Burgundy a large diamond.

* Still more believe it’s a vast conspiracy on the part of the jewelry industry to rake in all our money! Just remember, in matters of the heart, one needs little justification for any act, senseless or otherwise. Follow your heart, and let it decide what you want.

1. YOUR BUDGET – FOLLOW YOUR HEAD, NOT YOUR HEART!

I know I’ve just contradicted myself, but hey, this is an important point. It’s all very well that you’ve decided to go in for the ring, however here’s the guideline: Jewelry is expensive. Good jewelry is even more expensive. Great jewelry is… But you get the point. Solicit ideas may be a good idea. Speak to men who’ve already done the deed. A family member could have some advice. Your local jeweler will simply be bursting with ideas too. However, ensure that the final decision is yours. Nothing else will do. Here are some tips to help you along. It doesn’t always need to be a diamond. It’s true. Many feel the modern tradition of diamonds is over-sold. Remember that the value of the engagement ring will mean different things to different women. Most women believe more in the symbolic value of the ring, especially if the proposal is sincere. There are many imitation diamonds in the market, but remember that while it may fool some, it will never fool her. My advice, don’t even try. But do take heart; there are many alternatives to diamonds that are affordable, romantic and of symbolic value too.

A Ruby or a Red Garnet symbolizes the passion and zest for life, and everything the heart stands for. Other marginally more expensive alternatives are the Red Tourmaline or Red Spinel. Choices in green include the Green Garnet and Green Tourmaline, and the enchanting Emerald, all of which stand for the everlasting symbols of faithfulness and continuity. The Blue Spinel, Iolite, Blue Tourmaline and Sapphire stand for purity and spirituality. The Pearl has long been associated with love and weddings, far before any other gemstone. Try and find a natural pearl in an heirloom or antique piece. A good idea would be to combine the stone of your choice with a small diamond on either side to complete the symbolism with the aura of indestructibility and infinity that the diamond stands for. An important thing is to decide whether she prefers her birthstone itself. It will make it more personal, closer to her heart.

So no matter what your budget, and no matter what you want to say, these beautiful, rare and precious choices are well within reach. It simply has to incorporate the correct symbolism for the two of you, while showing thoughtfulness and caring. However, society sometimes fuels unrealistic expectations for the perfect engagement ring, and you may decide to go in for a diamond ring after all. Or maybe, you can actually afford one quite easily. Whatever the reason, remember to separate yourself from the benchmarks that others set, and make this decision based on your own preference. Most financiers and jewelers agree that an ideal budget would be in the range of approximately 2 or 3 months’ salary. Some choose to spend more because they have another disposable income, and many find a good ring spending less than the prescribed budget. Just remember, matters of the heart are generally directly disproportionate to your bank balance! Use your head, that’s all.

2. WHAT DOES THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE ACTUALLY LIKE?

You will now have to begin doing things that most men find very difficult. Start Paying Attention!

* What is the metal color she prefers? Unlike men, most women will have a definite preference. Your choices will vary between White gold, Yellow gold, Rose gold or Platinum.

* Does she now wear jewelry that is vintage or antique? Or does her preference lean towards modern contemporary design, or is she prejudiced to classic and timeless designs that never go out of fashion?

* Her regular jewelry is probably the best indication of her taste, especially because it almost surely is made up of items she is most comfortable with. Are You Listening?

* If she’s ever mentioned an opinion, it’s a definite clue. Has she commented on a friend’s ring? Why did she like it? Or why not?

* Does she like diamonds, or does she prefer other gemstones? Has she ever discussed jewelry with friends or family?

* If you’re clueless, don’t worry. It shouldn’t be hard to divert her attention towards a jewelry store when you’re out shopping. Be subtle! Tell her you’re looking for a tie-pin or something, but be sure to stop by the engagement ring counter. Start Noticing Her Hands!

* Think proportional when it comes to choosing the shape of the stone, and the ring’s thickness.

* Bold styles generally suit women with long fingers, while delicate jewelry will be unnoticeable on large hands.

* The wider the band, the shorter the appearance of the finger.

* Oval diamonds will make her fingers look more sleek, but avoid over-doing it.

3. CHOOSING YOUR JEWELER & JEWELRY CERTIFICATION

Regardless of whether you choose a gemstone or a diamond, this is an important step. It will not only ensure you get your money’s worth, but will also help if and when you decide to insure your expensive investment. In the US, the GIA (Gemological Institute of America) or the AGS (American Gem Society) are the most trusted certifiers for diamonds. Various countries have their respective certifiers, so make some enquiries before you purchase that stone. Look for a jeweler you can trust. Generally, a jeweler who has a good reputation in the community and who’s been in business for many years is the one you should approach, especially if you, like most men, are not very familiar with jewelry.

4. The Engagement Ring’s Band

Get It Right! However tempting it is to ignore the band because the vast majority of the cost is for the gemstone or diamond, the way the diamond is set in the band decides the overall appearance of the finished jewelry. Fortunately, this is much easier than picking out the gemstone. The thickness of the band isn’t the only consideration. Her personal taste in metal color, her hand type, her skin color, the size of the stone, all play a part in deciding what the band should look like. Regardless of whether you choose White, Yellow or Rose Gold, 18ct (Carat) Gold is the best choice, followed by 14ct. Despite being significantly more expensive, many still choose Platinum for the ring. Now you need to decide how you want the stone set. Want it to ride low? It won’t be very showy (you’re probably wondering what the point is then), but consider that a diamond that juts out is liable to snag itself on just about anything that brushes it and will also be prone to damage. You’d imagine there’d be an easy answer to the illusive question of choosing an engagement ring design.

There is no scientific or mathematical way to design or choose one. It’s purely a matter of one’s personal preference, hedged by some practical reasoning: – Does it look good? – Is it practical to wear? – Will it withstand normal wear and tear? – Does it hold the all-important gemstone securely? If you want an extremely fine design, then choose Platinum, as it is much stronger and will wear out gold many times over. Also, a 6-claw arrangement will hold the stone more securely than a 4-claw. If her work involves very heavy contact, then you may consider a bezel setting (called a rub-over). It’s safer than a claw setting. You may want to sneak one of her rings to the jeweler, so he can measure it. Otherwise an outline will help. You could impress one of her rings in a bar of soap, or push one down as far as it will go on one of your fingers, then mark the spot. Simpler still would be to trace the ring on paper. If all else fails, try asking her mother or friend to do the deed for you! Which brings us to our final point: Is this ring an investment? Ideally, no. At least, not for the reason you’ve bought it. When you consider the non-monetary investment you’ve made in the ring, you’ll find as a symbol of your love and devotion, it stands unrivaled. As a priceless testament of your love, your woman will be overjoyed, no matter what you choose.

by S Prasad

Platinum, known for its durability is a popular choice for rings. Finally, the selection of the ring style is just as important. You could either select a simple ring with a single stone (which is called a solitaire), or a ring with side stones or Baguettes, which will add to the total price of the ring and is more personalized.

Summary:

A special occasion always warrants a special gift. And for an occasion like an engagement, the ring is the gift which highlights the ceremony. When buying an engagement ring, the first decision to make would be the ring size. It is important to note that the ring band (or the part of the ring which surrounds the finger) should fit comfortably and well. The engagement ring itself comes in two parts: the setting (which holds the stone) and the band. The setting is almost always made out of platinum (even on a gold ring) because of the metal’s strength and durability.

A selection can be made whether the stone is gripped by 4 or 6 prongs. A setting with 4 prongs will show more of the stone, but a setting with 6 prongs is more secure. But, whether you would want prongs or any other setting which does not use prongs, for example, a setting which would use a channel to hold the stone, is a matter of personal preference. The band itself can be made out of different materials, most common to note would be gold. The gold used in manufacturing rings is usually alloyed with Nickel, Copper or Zinc to add strength to the band, as pure gold is known to bend easily.

A 24-carat band is known to be of pure gold, where as an 18-carat band will usually be about 68% gold. However, if you would want a silver band that rarely tarnishes, platinum is the metal of choice for the band. But, platinum is much more rare than gold and costs more. Platinum, known for its durability is a popular choice for rings. Finally, the selection of the ring style is just as important. You could either select a simple ring with a single stone (which is called a solitaire), or a ring with side stones or Baguettes, which will add to the total price of the ring and is more personalized. 2. How to choose gemstone. A gemstone is a mineral rock or petrified material that when cut and polished, can be used as either a collectible or in Jewelry. It is usually the organic or hard gemstones like diamonds and rubies which are used in Jewelry. There are four basic gemstones which are considered as cardinal and these are Diamonds, Rubies, Sapphires and Emeralds; and these are classified as precious stones. Others, which are semi-precious, range from Agate to Zircon, which are mostly manufactured to imitate precious stones.

The most common semi-precious gemstones are Opal, Cubic Zirconia (which is a synthetic diamond substitute), Amethyst, Jade, Quartz, Topaz and Lapis Lazuli. When selecting a gemstone, some important factors to consider would be: a) The artificial materials used in the gem: Some artificial materials used include High-Lead glass, and synthetic materials like cubic zirconia, corundum, and moissanite. These are used to strengthen the material. b) The organic materials used: these can range from Amber, Bone, Coral, Pearl to Jet (Lignite). c) The cut of the stone: Some stones, most commonly diamonds, are cut into different geometrical shapes to reflect their dimensions. Most common cuts are Round, Radiant, Pear, Oval and Marquise. The cut defines the shape of the stone and determines the brilliance it reflects. It is the above factors which also determine the price of the gemstone in addition to the setting that the gemstone would be in, the carat weight and the color.

by Sunaina Joseph

The element of surprise is one that you must never compromise on. So don’t make the mistake of asking your partner what she wants, no matter how unsure you are. The average time taken to pick a ring is between one and two months.

Summary:

The Ring. The Circle. The symbol of unity, perfection and eternity. Like the Sun and the full Moon. It has no beginning and no end. Ever wondered where the tradition of the ring started from? I’ve heard many stories and this is the one that is probably the closest to the truth. It is said that thousands of years ago, the caveman used a woven cord of rushes, grass, reeds and leather to tie the hands and feet of his potential mate so that she could not escape. After a while, he tied it only around her hands. Finally, when he was certain that she would stay with him, he would tie the cord only around her finger. Now, we do it like our forefathers, and their forefathers, hence carrying on thousands of years of tradition. The only difference is that we have a little more trouble choosing our rushes and reeds.

I have a few tips for those on the brink of asking the ‘big question’, but before we get down to the facts and figures, lets make one thing absolutely clear- This ring is bought only once in your entire lifetime, so it must be as unique as the woman you have chosen.

BASICS BEFORE FACTS

The element of surprise is one that you must never compromise on. So don’t make the mistake of asking your partner what she wants, no matter how unsure you are. The average time taken to pick a ring is between one and two months. Don’t rush it. It never turns out right if u do. Conventionally, the two-month salary is the yardstick, but in the end it is entirely up to you. Keep in mind that you will end up spending a little more than you originally intended. The Classic Engagement Ring is made up of three parts-       The Band, the Stone and the Setting. If you make a decision on the type of metal you want, you are definitely onto a good start.

THE BAND

‘The true measure of value is rarity’. Platinum is rare, it is eternal and it should be at the top of your list (if it is within your budget). Any design that you see in a store can be duplicated in platinum. The hallmark of the ring will reveal the metal that makes up the ring. Indications of platinum are: Platinum, Plat, Pt, Pt950, 950Pt, 950Plat, Plat950, 900Pt, Pt900 and 900Plat. Yellow gold is the next best option. It has been popular in jewelry-making since the beginning of time as it bends easily. White gold is not a very good choice as it turns yellow after a while, and has to be replated. Tip: Observe the kind of metal your partner usually wears. Stick to what you think she is most comfortable with.

THE STONE

The stone will account for the major cost of the ring (approximately 75-90%) Here again, beauty, rarity and value are the criteria, hence the diamond has become the choice of the masses over the years. When choosing your diamond, keep in mind the four C’s- Color, Clarity, Cut, and Carat weight. The Solitaire (single diamond) of 1.0 carat is most widely favored among the women, but there is a wide variety of styles that makes the ring more individualized.

You may choose pear shaped or oval stones (though round diamonds are usually preferred by the bride-to-be) For a more decorated ring, side stones and baguettes can be added. This will add to the overall appeal and cost of the ring. The in-thing is diamond laser inscription. You can inscribe a romantic message, poem, symbol or just anything to personalize the diamond. If this is not what you are looking for, remember that diamonds are not your only choice. If you have a tight budget, or your partner is not a fan of diamonds, there are other options. Queen Elizabeth and Princess Diana received sapphire engagement rings. So follow your heart, and some of my advice.

A Ruby, Red Garnet and Red Tourmaline are symbols of the heart. Red is a sign of passion and zest for life. Green symbolizes faithfulness, loyalty and continuity. Hence the Emerald, the Green Tourmaline and the Green Garnet are favored stones. Similarly, the Sapphire, Spinel, Iolite, and Blue Tourmaline are symbols of spirituality and purity. The gem that has been associated with love and marriage the longest is the natural Pearl, which is a great choice if the style of the ring is antique.

THE SETTING

This is what holds the stone in the band, and it is important that you choose the appropriate setting (for aesthetics and practicality)).The most commonly used settings that hold the stone securely are the 4 or 6 prongs(6 prongs are recommended for the security of the stone) and the channel setting . Some stones are held in place with pressure. Style is the next issue to tackle. There are various styles such as contemporary, retro, antique reproductions and classics, to name a few. This, too, can be chosen in accordance with the style of your partner. Find something that will complement the kind of clothes she wears, or take a look at her home dicor. Is it minimalist and sleek? Then go with something simple, yet modern. If she has funky, chic furnishing (the flea market look), then you should opt for something more Art Dicor. If her house is draped with sheer fabrics, dripping with rose petals and smelling of scented candles, then Art Nouveau is the ideal choice. BONUS TIPS Tip1: There are different finger types, and the ring must be chosen to suit the hand of your partner. Think proportional! Do not choose wide bands for short fingers, as they make fingers appear shorter than they are.

Women with long fingers can carry off even a bold style, whereas an extremely delicate ring can be lost on large hands. Tip2: Her lifestyle can determine the kind of jewelry she wears. If her workplace can’t handle fussy jewelry, then make sure you choose something subtle. Tip3: If you can’t get a hold of her ring size, don’t panic. Jewelers can easily resize the ring later. …….. And after all this, if you still cant figure out the ideal combination of metal and stone…. and whatever you do, the stone seems too big or too small for the band… and the band ends up being the wrong color and the wrong size. If you are still as lost as when you started your quest, and are at your wits end, buy a loose stone, ask her the big question, and the both of you can shop together for the perfect ring!

by Nalini Naik

First and foremost you will have to ascertain her taste where jewelry is concerned. Find out whether she likes settings that are simple and sophisticated, or styles that are bold and colorful. Is she partial to any particular gemstone? Then there is yellow gold or white gold for the band to choose from, or even platinum.

Summary:

An engagement ring is a very important piece of jewelry because, it is a symbol of a commitment to care, to love, and to cherish. It is a promise of togetherness for a lifetime. So, the utmost care has to be taken when choosing the ring or this very important occasion. Buying an engagement ring is not one of the easiest of tasks. But, with a little help and guidance, you will be able to acquire a beautiful ring which will bring a sparkle to her eyes. So here are a few guidelines to help you select the ideal engagement ring:

Her choice

First and foremost you will have to ascertain her taste where jewelry is concerned. Find out whether she likes settings that are simple and sophisticated, or styles that are bold and colorful. Is she partial to any particular gemstone? Then there is yellow gold or white gold for the band to choose from, or even platinum. One way of determining this is by the kind of jewelry she already possesses and wears. You can also enroll the assistance of a close friend or close relative. Once you are fairly sure of her choice in engagements rings, the next step is to decide your budget.

Your budget

How much are you willing to spend or better still how much can you afford? With a wide array of diamonds and other gemstones and other gemstones to choose from, the sky is the limit. But if your budget is limited, do not worry. One can acquire beautiful rings made of diamonds, rubies, emeralds and sapphires or even semiprecious stones at a most affordable price. So, you don’t need to set your targets too high. With good taste and a little creativity you can buy a ring which is impeccably stylish and sophisticated. Remember, great style does not always comes at a great price. Once your budget has been decided, your next step would be to make sure you get value for your money. In order to do this a fair knowledge of diamonds and other stones will go a long way in helping you make the correct choice. You will have to know the variety that is available and how to determine their quality. Armed with this knowledge you will be able to get the very best they have to offer, and within your budget.

So let’s begin by making a study of diamonds and their characteristics. Diamonds; they say diamonds are forever. How true! This gem which is called a girls best friend, is known for its durability and beauty. But, all diamonds are not the same. They not only vary in size, but also in their quality. This is what determines their price too. For example solitaires of one carat and more are the most expensive. And as for their quality, this is determined by their cut, clarity, color and carat. To know a little more about the four ‘Cs’ as they are called, lets go into them one by one.

Cut: This important aspect is what gives the diamond its brilliance and fire and sets it apart from the other gems. The light reflecting off a beautifully cut diamond is what adds to it’s sparkle and luster. A diamond that is not so well cut looks dull and lifeless. In fact before you make a final choice make sure the diamond sparkles beautifully in natural and artificial light. Remember, an ideally cut diamond has perfect proportions,

Clarity: The best diamond is the one without any spots and discoloration. It should be absolutely colorless and clear. In fact the value of the diamond is also determined by it’s clarity. The more spotless and clear the diamond is, the more value it will have. Sometimes the spots and discolorations are very visible to the naked eye, but most times they are not. This is why most of the reputed jewelry outlets offer magnifying glasses to their customers. When viewed through a magnifying glass, any spot or discoloration is visible immediately. So take a good look before you make a final choice.

Color: The white diamond devoid of any color or spots is rare and most valuable. These are most favored. Of course there are colored variations available too. But these are not very expensive or popular because of the many impurities present in them.

Carat: The carat or the measure of the size is what makes it more or less valuable. The bigger the diamond the more expensive it is. A solitaire weighing a cart or more is definitely more expensive than cluster of small diamonds adding up to the same carat weight.

Thus, keeping all the above mentioned factors in mind one can make a fairly good choice. But before making a final decision lets learn a little more about the gems. Gemstones like rubies, emeralds and sapphires are quite valuable, though not as much as diamonds. These three varieties are popularly used in celebration rings. These may be used on their own or mixed with other gems and diamonds. The dark green of the emerald, the deep red of the ruby and the mystic blue of the sapphire, all complement each other as well as the diamond, when used along with them. The vibrant colors of these gems has to be seen to be believed.

Rings crafted intricately with these precious stones never go out of fashion. Keep in mind some important points when choosing these gems- the gems should not be chipped or cracked. The color should be even as far as possible. Like diamonds, the cut and clarity is important and their prices vary with their size. All these gems come in various shapes too. The band and ring setting has to be decided on next- the band could be 14k or 18kgold. The gold could be yellow or white, These bands studded wit diamonds and precious stones could take your breadth away. Then there is platinum. Bands made of platinum are best suited for solitaires because they hold the stone much better. Of course, platinum looks god with small diamonds too. As for the setting, a cluster of small diamonds, set in different patterns, can look impeccably stylish. And when mixed with other gems, like emeralds, rubies and sapphires, they look stunning .

All in all, you can get settings from the classic to the contemporary styles. So the choice is very wide indeed. When choosing a pattern, follow your instinct, and you cannot go wrong. But all said and done, if your budget permits, I would recommend a solitaire. It is a once in a lifetime buy, and no woman young or old can resist the allure, the mystic and charm of a solitaire. One last piece of advice. Always buy gems from reputed jewelry outlets. These give you a buy back guarantee as well. Make sure the gems, especially diamonds are certified. Check out with different jewelers before making the final choice. This way, you’ll get the best your money can buy And last but not the least, do not forget to create the perfect ambience and mood , when presenting the ring. Good Luck.

by Seema Susheel

Remember how much you spend on the engagement ring doesn’t make your love more or less for your fianci so don’t go about casually buying an engagement ring paying whatever the cost is without thinking twice. Go for a purchase which gives you value for your money as well as peace of mind.

Summary:

Its your big day, finally you are all set to buy the sparkling engagement ring for your fianci ,the piece of jewellery that will be constantly with her, reminding every now and then that she is so special to you. It’s an emotional event and a lifetime special purchase. So how do you go about buying an engagement ring, here is a quick guide to help you through.

* The best way to go about the whole procedure is to take your fianci along and let her choose the perfect ring for herself. The ring should suite her finger and her lifestyle and she is the best person to choose the ring. But if you want to keep the element of surprise then you have to go about buying the ring yourself. You don’t want her to know about the pricing and payment issues then you have to just put in little thought and buy the ring yourself. Finally when you are all set to choose and buy the ring then there is lot of nuances to take care of. The following are certain points you will have to keep in mind while buying the engagement ring.

* First of all get the ring size. To keep the surprise you will have to get one of your fianci’ rings when she is not looking, even if you can’t and have bought the wrong size many jewelers can alter the ring size later too.

* A ring usually consists of two parts a diamond and a setting, find out what kind of a setting your fianci would love, gold, platinum or silver.

* While choosing the design you can go for a solitaire meaning a single diamond embedded on the ring which could be gold, silver or platinum. You can also get many different shapes and designs or even choose for a plain gold band.

* Once you have decided on the design and the material the next step is to choose the jeweler. This is the challenging part as there are many options available and you have to choose which suites your budget and convenience.

* Price, variety, and expertise are what you should look in a jeweler. Apart from that the jeweler should also offer you diamond certification which guarantees whether the diamond is authentic. You should also be able to return back the ring if there is any problem and the jeweler should accept it without any hassles.

* Do some research. Ask your friends and family who have already bought engagement rings before; they can help you to choose the right shop where you get value for your money.

* If you are looking to buy a diamond ring then you have to be more careful in choosing the right one which is authentic, right cut, color and size.

* Choose a jewelry store with a credible history and reputation having the latest design trends, and varied designs to choose from.

* If the design or the cost doesn’t suite you be prepared to walk out and not get lured by the salesman talk as you might end up paying much more then the actual cost.

* Find out the gold prize, the loose diamond prize and making charges for the ring, then you can go for custom design made to order by you, this will cut down the cost.

* Go for Quality, Beauty, Simplicity and Reliability.

* Remember how much you spend on the engagement ring doesn’t make your love more or less for your fianci so don’t go about casually buying an engagement ring paying whatever the cost is without thinking twice. Go for a purchase which gives you value for your money as well as peace of mind.

* You can even shop for your engagement ring on the internet, many reputed companies have setup their shops on the net wherein you can go through the choosing procedure selecting from varied designs choosing the type – gold, silver or platinum and cut and size of the diamond and place an order through your card. These companies take care of shipping your purchase to your place in weeks. You can be in any corner of the world and still make a good deal. This process is as reliable as buying a computer through net as you don’t get to see what you order for beforehand you don’t need to panic as these sites are very much reliable and lots of purchases are been made day in and day out.

* If you feel comfortable and you have a huge budget for the engagement ring then you can even shop at the superstore. The one with many branches all over. You might not get a lot of variety as jewelry is just one of the many things they sell.

* Beware of imitations as all that is white isn’t milk and all that shines is not a diamond.

* You can even make a purchase in one of the family owned jewelry shops. The shop though small should have a credible family history. These are the people, who have been making jewelry from their grandfather days. They will be having permanent clients who are buying jewelry from them from generation to generations. These shops though small in size and lacking all the grandeur of an up market superstore can give you a much better deal then the superstore itself. These people won’t charge for the rent, the dicor, salespeople’s salary or the gold wastage.

You pay for what you get and what you see and there is a guarantee as these jewelers have been in business from generations and have built a strong clientele because of their trustworthy service. World over hundreds of people regularly buy jewelry from such family owned jeweler shops as they don’t want to be at risk while buying valuables and they might compromise on the design but won’t do so for the price. If you have a design in mind you can approach these kinds of jewelry shops and place an order, they will make you the piece in a week or two, and you will have your engagement ring and peace of mind that you got a good deal.

* When you go for a diamond embedded in gold ring you spend a huge amount of money, it’s an investment lasting for a lifetime and the one that you can proudly pass on to the next generation. Hence you should always make sure you have the authentic certification of the diamond, so that you can get insurance cover for the ring. In case of any theft you can claim back your money.

by Swati K

This buying guide is intended to help you to do little research as & when it becomes necessary and to evaluate all the options before making the final decision of buying the engagement ring.

Summary:

THE EMBLEM OF VOW Rings are the token of love, commitment & togetherness between two people whom God has destined to be one. The romantic traditions associated with rings, dates back to the times of caveman. The Pharoahs of Egypt, are credited to use the ring as a symbol of true bond and eternity.The Egyptians regard the ring as a circle that has no beginning and no end, as the love between 2 people is endless. The origin of this ring in metal “iron” was worn by the Roman brides which symbolizes the strength and tenacity of there relationship. But today, engagement ring is not only a proove of marriage contract but a fashion statement, as it is a piece of jewellery worn by the bride and the groom for the rest of there lives. This buying guide is intended to help you to do little research as & when it becomes necessary and to evaluate all the options before making the final decision of buying the engagement ring. The choice of the ring is very much personal and depends on the indivisual likes and dislikes but one must keep certain basic factors in mind as follows:

1. Buying of ring? : This was traditionally done by the groom, but it is suggested that both the would-be couples should shop for it together. As the choices and likes of 2 people are involved.

2. Ring should be functional and fashionable.

3. Buy from right jeweller you trust or a one who is registered.

4. Lifestyle of your spouse: for eg if he is a sportsperson than Gold is not suggestable as it is a soft material and prone to scratches.

5. Establish a budget: The conventional budget i.e. the 2 months salary of the groom work well. But it complete depends on ones choice.

6. The couple should visit several jewelers to compare & select styles, prices and workmanship.

7. Insurance of the ring is very important. You can find out options to add jewellery to your home owner’s or renter’s insurance. You may be allowed by insurance companies to include your jewellery within your policy. You should read the terms of the policy carefully as some policies limit the value of jewellery items.

8. Before making the final purchase of the ring, the ring should be taken to an independent appraiser for examination. The appraiser will prepare in writing the composition of the stone or material used. The main job of the appraiser is to find out whether the quality of the ring is as per the price quoted. Any discrepancy in this regard can be sorted out before the final purchase.

9. Setting of the ring should be right. A good setting is considered when you can clearly see what is inside.

10. The choice of stone should go with the choice of metal. Whats in?

1. PLATINUM WITH DIAMONDS (WHITE GOLD  AS A CHEAPER OPTION)

2. COLOURED STONES IN VARIOUS COMBOS

3. MIXING WHITE AND YELLOW GOLD

4. CLASSIC BANDS OF GOLD AND PLATINUM

Gemstones for you…

* All you friendly janvary borns – Garnet is the stone for you. This is a dark red gemstone that looks good with both white and yellow gold.

* For all the intelligent Aquarians & pisceans (feburary borns), Aquararine is the stone. This is a blue, greenish blue stone that looks good with white gold or platinum.

* Catstone is for the march people.

* Diamonds for the April borns, to vile away evil spirits.

* Pearl for the June borns symbolizing peace and serenity.

* The symbol of love and fullfillness i.e. Ruby for july borns.

* Onyx for the Augusts.

* Sapphires for good health and fortune for September born people.

* Hope with opal for October borns.

* Topaz for the sharp November born people.

* Turquoise for prosperity for December.

How to know her more ?

How will you know if she will like the ring you pick??? Well here are a few suggestions :

1. Take a good look at the choice of your partner i.e. what kind of jewellery she wears.

2. Is she short or tall or fat or slim, because the kind of jewellery depends on the kind of physical persona of a person.

3. Ask her friends about her likes and dislikes?

4. Is she having tiny fingers? Then she would prefer something delicate.

5. Is she a traditional girl? You can go for something classic. But always remember …. YOU DON’T LOVE A WOMAN BECAUSE SHE IS BEAUTIFUL, BUT SHE IS BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE YOU LOVE HER .

by Dhanya

Depending on the lifestyle one can decide what is more practical and easy to wear. The higher the setting of the gemstone or diamond the more the ring could catch onto things. Like if one works behind a desk all day, then could wear a high set ring.

Summary:

The evening was perfect. The lights were dimmed just right. The ring is in your pocket, your heart in your throat! The food is untouched, and the wine is nervously gulped down by you. Your girlfriend looks like an angel, the aura of her beauty is leaving everyone speechless in the restaurant. Your blood pressure is at an all-level peak and the world around is oblivious to you. Finally you pop the question! The ring? Was it the ‘right’ one? The gemstone you use, the setting and the metal you’ve used makes all the difference! There are five important things to look for when you choose your engagement ring. They include, firstly it has to be easy and practical to wear, secondly it has to withstand everyday wear, thirdly it has to hold its gemstones securely, fourthly the gemstone that is used and finally it should look good.

Let me elaborate.  1.Easy And Practical To Wear: Depending on the lifestyle one can decide what is more practical and easy to wear. The higher the setting of the gemstone or diamond the more the ring could catch onto things. Like if one works behind a desk all day, then could wear a high set ring. But if one works as a pre-school teacher or a hairdresser it would be very difficult to wear a high set ring, a well and low set ring would do well.

2.Withstanding Everyday Wear: The metal used and the way the ring with the gemstone is styled is very important. Especially in work places like factories there is a higher possibility your ring wouldn’t last long. Preferably the rings should be made such that the part between the ring and the crown is made strong. Gold wears off faster when compared to Platinum. Gold can be 18ct, 14ct or 9ct and be either white, yellow gold. 18ct Gold, whether it is white, yellow gold is the best and preferred choice for Gold Engagement Rings followed by 14ct. Platinum is now popular in the rings worn by almost one-third of today’s engaged women.

3.Holding The Gemstones Securely: The Gemstones have to be set well such that they are safe and don’t cause too much of a hindrance while doing anything. Here are a few things you can look out for when buying the right ring:

1. 6 claws hold the gemstone better than 4 claws. 2. A heavier setting is better than a light one. 3. A lower setting is less likely to be damaged than a higher setting. 4.The Gemstone used: Many people like the idea of enhancing a birthstone with diamonds; a very hot trend slowly catching up in the market.

Month: January Gemstone: Garnet Symbolizes: Eternal Friendship Color: Semi-transparent, Dark Red

Month: February Gemstone: Amethyst Symbolizes: Faithfulness And Sincerity Color: Clear Purple Or Bluish Violet

Month: March Gemstone: Aquamarine Symbolizes: Intelligence And Courage Color: Transparent Blue, Blue-Green Or Green

Month: April Gemstone: Diamond Symbolizes: It Is Believed To Protect The Wearer From Evil Spirits and Represents Innocence and Matrimonial Happiness Color: Usually Appear Colorless, Others Offer A Hint Of Color Ranging From Soft Blue To Yellow Caused By A Few Impurities

Month: May Gemstone: Emerald Symbolizes: Domestic Harmony And Success In Love Color: Transparent Deep Green

Month: June Gemstone: Pearl Symbolizes: Longevity And Reflects Health Color: Creamy White

Month: July Gemstone: Ruby Symbolizes: Love And Contentment Color: Red

Month: August Gemstone: Sardonyx Symbolizes: Purity Color: White-and-Brown (Variety Of The Onyx)

Month: September Gemstone: Sapphire Symbolizes: Truth, Faithfulness And Good Fortune Color: Rich Blue

Month: October Gemstone: Opal Symbolizes: Hope Color: Mixture Of Colors Against A Soft, Milky White Ground

Month: November Gemstone: Topaz Symbolizes: Fidelity Color: Transparent Yellow To Yellow-Brown

Month: December Gemstone: Turquoise Symbolizes: Prosperity Color: Blue, Bluish-Green Or Green < /P > < P > The Diamonds You Choose: Lookout for the 4 C’s – Cut, Clarity, Color and Carat. One can choose from a variety of colors – using the letter grading system for classifying the color of diamonds, starting with D for the lightest blue tone to Z for the yellow stones. Higher quality Diamonds reflect more light and have a crisp sparkle. The various types of cuts of diamonds are the main reasons for the range of differences in reflections of the Diamonds. < /P > < P > 5.The Looking Good Factor: If there’s a design that you really like, fits your budget and it complies the above four requirements then what are you waiting for? It is difficult it is to find the perfect Engagement ring for your loved one, no doubt but once you find that special ring for that special Girl (Lucky Girl may I say…) it only symbolizes that rare and strange thing called LOVE, treasure it! “Perfect love is rare indeed – for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain.” -Leo Buscaglia Best Wishes For a Great Engagement Ahead!

by Theresa Smith

Finding an engagement ring that is special and symbolizes the love and devotion two people share for one another has never been easier. These days – with the help of information-rich websites that allows consumers to not only view up-close images of fine jewelry to suit all tastes and budgets but also provide access to important information about the piece – couples can shop in the privacy and convenience of their home.

A couple’s engagement is a commitment to live a life together in connubial bliss, while the ring itself symbolizes something that is beautiful, rare and precious – like the love they share. The process of choosing an engagement ring that is as unique as the woman who is to wear it needn’t be a daunting undertaking. To my mind, choosing an engagement ring is best done together unless the prospective groom is thoroughly convinced of his fianci’s taste in jewelry. Give her what she wants Knowing what kind of jewelry she owns will give you insight into what to buy for future anniversaries and special events, but when it comes to choosing the engagement ring and wedding band, it is best to let her choose.

Although this may sound less romantic as opposed to immersing a diamond solitaire in her champagne during a romantic candle light dinner, she will value your good judgment to elicit her opinion and in giving her what she wants. Even so, it is valuable to know whether she prefers modern or traditional jewelry. Does she favor white gold, yellow gold, two-tone (white and yellow gold) or platinum (currently the most popular metal for engagement rings)? Finding an engagement ring that is special and symbolizes the love and devotion two people share for one another has never been easier.

These days – with the help of information-rich websites that allows consumers to not only view up-close images of fine jewelry to suit all tastes and budgets but also provide access to important information about the piece – couples can shop in the privacy and convenience of their home. Celebration of individual taste Be prepared to examine many different styles of engagement rings before selecting a few to evaluate individually to make a final choice. Bear in mind that the design of an engagement ring should be a celebration of individual taste – whether she prefers a plain, simple design or a more unusual, distinctive creation.

If what’s readily available doesn’t make your hearts sing, then perhaps you should consider commissioning a jewelry designer to create a custom-made ring for you. For design ideas look at both modern and antique rings for inspiration. Combine different design features you like. Rings can also be engraved with personal messages or names on the inside of the band to add a personal touch. Bear in mind that the choice of a wedding band must compliment the engagement ring. Diamonds, colored gemstones and pearls Most men still believe that their special lady will want nothing other than a diamond engagement ring, however trends have changed and many women combine a color gemstone with a small diamond on each side.

For instance the Queen Mother, Queen Elizabeth, Princess Anne and Princess Diana received sapphire engagements rings, and Princess Sarah Ferguson’s engagement ring was a ruby. The idea is to choose a ring that best symbolizes your relationship and love. There are many colored gemstones that convey personal emotions; for example, red stones – including ruby, red garnet, red tourmaline or red spinel – symbolize passion and a zest for life. Green gemstones symbolize faithfulness and continuity – including emerald, green garnet and green tourmaline. Blue gemstones symbolize spirituality and purity – including sapphire, blue spinel, iolite and blue tourmaline. Another gem that is associated with love is the pearl. Traditional diamond solitaires top the list of popular engagement rings, of which the most favored is round brilliant; others include pear, emerald, oval, heart, marquise and princess.

Other settings that are becoming increasingly popular are clusters and the fashionable three stone ring. Know what you’re buying It is important to know what to look for when purchasing an engagement ring. Experts recommend the ‘Five Cs’ which comprise cut, color, clarity, carat and cost. The cut – tiny planes cut on the stone’s surface – defines the sparkle and the shape which can be a round cut, the emerald, the pear, the marquise, the princess, the oval and the heart shape. Ask to see pictures of all these shapes. Color is an important consideration, as well as the clarity of a stone. The weight of a stone is measured by carat. The average size of an engagement ring stone is between one carat and half a carat. When buying diamonds you should ask for a ‘cert stone’ which is a diamond that has been assessed, graded and coded with a laser by an independent gemological laboratory.

It should be an internationally recognized certificate. Ring size Buying the correct ring size is very important. One could wrap a piece of string around the ring finger to find the diameter and check the number against the table to get the ring size, or one could try different rings on in different sizes to ensure a good fit. When you are ready to order the ring online, know the ring size; on average women wear a size 7, although ring sizes are between 5 and 9. How much to pay? How much you are prepared to spend on an engagement ring is a personal matter. Ensure that a detailed receipt is issued with your purchase in the event of an insurance claim or future repair.